How to Be the Man She Fantasizes About. Make her want you more
Make Her Fantasizes You: No matter how tempted you are and I know you are, DON’T skip ahead. Because what you’re about to learn is the difference between being just another guy and the man who owns her thoughts, her fantasies… her desire.
Most men think “making her wild” is about looks, money, or cheesy pickup lines. They’re wrong. It’s about the way you touch her without touching her. The way your voice drops when you say her name. The way you command her attention without begging for it.
She won’t admit it, but she craves a man who knows how to unlock her passion not with tricks, but with unshakable confidence and raw, primal energy.
Want to be the man she can’t stop thinking about? The one who makes her bite her lip when you walk away? Then pay attention. Because what comes next will change everything.
Know Her Deeply– Emotion First , Intimacy Second
To make her Fantasizes you , you must truly understand her, not just her body, but her heart. If she’s emotionally unfulfilled, frustrated, or feeling unloved, no amount of physical skill will bridge that gap.
Meet her emotional needs first. Show her she’s cherished, valued, and desired beyond the bedroom. Only then will she crave you, body and soul.
Not every woman climaxes the same way, and some never will because her partner rushes or ignores the emotional connection she desperately needs.
If you’re too impatient or ashamed to ask why she isn’t lost in pleasure, she’ll pull away. And if she’s constantly rejecting you, dodging intimacy, or rolling her eyes at your touch? You’re the problem. Harsh? Maybe. But truth burns brightest. { Read erotica story; A stolen moment }
A woman who feels emotionally and sexually satisfied won’t deny her man for long. She’ll ache for you, crave your touch like a primal need. Make her want you more by mastering her desires, both in and out of the bedroom.
Ask yourself: Do I truly know what she craves? If not, don’t blame her. When a man learns to fulfill her deepest needs, she won’t resist him, she’ll pursue him.
A woman’s sexuality is like a delicate yet powerful bloom. It doesn’t just open on demand, it flourishes when it’s nurtured. Watered. Cared for.
You, my dear man, are the gardener. And you hold the hose. It’s up to you to tend to her emotional and physical landscape, with slow, deliberate foreplay that speaks to her soul, not just her body.
This isn’t about rushing to the main event. This is about making her crave your touch.
Master this, and soon, she’ll be the one seducing you. (Unless, of course, she’s under the weather, then just be the man who holds her close until she’s ready to melt in your arms again.)
Start in the Morning —If You Want to Make Her Fantasizes You
She craves touch, not always sexual, but deeply emotional. A gentle brush of your hand, the way you pull her into your arms, a kiss on the forehead while she’s making coffee… these moments matter.
They whisper, I see you. I desire you. You are mine. It’s in these non-sexual touches, dozens of them throughout the day, that you lay the foundation for something unforgettable.
Touch her like you mean it, like she’s your world, and you’ll make her Fantasizes you.
This kind of connection is healing. Science has proven it: people who are touched lovingly are healthier, happier, and more secure in their relationships.
There’s a saying I once heard: “There is an old saying about an Irishman…he won’t kiss his wife for 25 years, but he will kill any man who does.
I heard it somewhere and always remembered that. A woman doesn’t forget who makes her feel wanted. And if she’s not getting that affection from you, she may start wondering who else can give it. { Conversations that leads to sex }
Make Her Wild
Now that you’ve spent the day seducing her mind, stirring her heart, and igniting her desire, it’s time to set her body on fire. This is where the teasing turns into temptation and patience becomes your most seductive weapon.
Start with her breasts. Devote yourself to them. Lavish her with kisses, licks, and featherlight touches for at least an hour. Take your time.
Don’t just touch, worship. Watch how she reacts. Feel her tension build with every flick of your tongue, every whispered breath.
Yes, many women can climax just from breast stimulation alone when aroused enough, so make it your mission to find out if she’s one of them.
Let this be your goal: to see just how many times you can make her come before you even think about entering her. This is how you make her Fantasizes you.
Listen to her. Encourage her to guide you. Tell her you want her to tell you what feels good. Be her student, her lover, her obsession.
And when she begs for more, don’t rush. Keep the tension climbing. The longer she waits, the wilder she’ll get.
When you’re ready, explore her clit with reverence. Use your fingers, your lips, your tongue, your breath. Tease, circle, flick, gently. Let her direct you.
Let her tell you when to press harder or back off. And never, ever use your teeth—unless she asks for it. Imagine how it would feel if the roles were reversed. This is about her pleasure, not performance.
Once you’ve made her climax, three to five times, at least shift your focus. Her body will be hypersensitive, maybe even trembling. That’s good. That’s power. Slow down. Let her cool just enough to crave your touch again. Then slide a clean, trimmed finger inside her, softly.
Not just that let your fingertips search for her G-spot, the soft, spongy spot on the roof of her vagina. Tease it gently, steadily, until she’s moaning again, lost in the haze of her own pleasure.
Understand this: every woman is wired differently. Some respond intensely to clitoral play, others to deep penetration, others to the G-spot. Some need a combination.
Don’t assume, ask. Be curious. Be generous. When you tailor your touch to her unique needs, you’ll not only make her climax, you’ll make her yours.
And if you can bring her to all three kinds of orgasm in one night? She’ll never forget you. Her body will never forget you. That’s how you become the man who lives in her fantasies. That’s how you make her Fantasizes you.
When she’s moaning your name, clawing the sheets, trembling, crying, begging you to stop but pulling you closer, you’ll know you’ve unleashed her.
When her voice breaks into a scream that echoes through the room, when her body goes stiff or shakes uncontrollably, when she’s wild, raw, undone, you’ll know you’ve given her exactly what she’s always craved.
Only then should you enter her.
And even then don’t rush. Match her rhythm. Ride her waves. Let the moment consume you both. You won’t last long, and that’s okay. She won’t want you to. Because she’ll already be completely, breathtakingly satisfied.
And more than that—she’ll be hungry for you again tomorrow. { Read, how to create sexual tension}
Conclusion
Not every intimate moment needs to be meticulously planned or highly detailed, but the same level of care and effort should always be present, no matter how creatively you express it.
A man who invests the time to give a woman the best relationship and sexual experience of her life will never find himself wishing for more.
However, patience is key; you must be willing to guide her to that point. Once she reaches it, she will blossom sexually, often initiating intimacy several times a week—if not daily.
What was once a mediocre connection will transform into a deeply loving and fulfilling partnership. As she grows in confidence, she’ll begin seducing you, especially if you openly communicate your desires.
So long as you remain attuned to her emotional and physical needs, you’ll never have to worry about her seeking another man. And once she fully unleashes her passion, you won’t feel the need to look elsewhere, either.
Every woman wants to be a sensual, uninhibited partner for the man she loves—he just has to be patient enough to help her discover that side of herself.
Mosunmola Alice is a sex education freelance writer with a bachelor's degree, passionate about pleasure, intimacy, and breaking taboos. She creates open, judgment-free conversations on consent, body awareness, and sexual wellness, helping readers navigate their sexuality with confidence.
She is the author of three books: Shine as You Are: Breaking Free from Body Shame, The Unspoken Want: Breaking Free from Sexual Shame and In Her Hand.
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